CARROLLTON, Texas - Jerry Jones’ stated goal this offseason was to make the Dallas Cowboys more “Romo-friendly,” a phrase that requires little reading into.

Certainly not for Tony Romo.

Romo recognizes the Cowboys are his team now, more than ever before. And, more than ever, he’s acting like it.

Romo is taking a new approach to conditioning in hopes of being in as good shape in December as he is in September. He’s working on ways to be smarter and safer with the football.

Put it all together and it sounds like he’s also accepting, and perhaps even embracing, the role of team leader — one that comes with more strings attached when that team is the Cowboys.

“It’s not only dealing with the game but dealing with all the extra stuff that goes with it,” Romo said Wednesday, the final day of a three-day minicamp that was the club’s last official get-together before training camp.

“There are a lot of people that struggle with the mental side of off-the-field situations, and if you can’t get over that then you’re never going to be able to perform on the field. That’s part of figuring out going with it and learning. I had to learn, just like I’m sure plenty of young guys will when they play.”

Romo is no longer the happy-go-lucky guy still riding the high of going from unknown backup to Pro Bowler with a pinup girlfriend. He still dates Jessica Simpson, but these days more people are talking about his 0-2 playoff record than his two trips to Hawaii.

More damaging is that Dallas missed the playoffs last season, going from midseason Super Bowl favorites to hardly showing up for their finale in Philadelphia when a win would’ve clinched a wild card. Romo’s reputation took another hit after that game when he said something that seemed to downplay the disappointment of missing the playoffs.

Jones threw out the “Romo friendly” line a few weeks before cutting Terrell Owens. Getting rid of the team’s most productive receiver wouldn’t seem to be in a quarterback’s best interests — unless that guy was causing other problems.

Either way, the result is more pressure for Romo to perform and one less weapon to help him do it. That alone could prompt changes.

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But Romo insists his reason is far more basic — he just wants to get better, using Michael Jordan as an example of someone who never stopped refining himself.

“I don’t know why you wouldn’t look at yourself from an honest perspective every time you go into the offseason and say, ’What do I need to do?”’ Romo said. “Back in February, when we started going at this thing, you look at tape, you look at yourself and you say, ’What did I not do successful?’ Or, ‘What hurt me this season when I was out on the football field?’ You have to really be harsh sometimes on yourself and you ask questions from people that you trust.”

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The answers that came back ranged from uncovering a flaw in his footwork to changes in his exercise routine.

And there was the usual bugaboo about his recklessness with the ball.